Stale NFS handles inside containers (ESTALE/errno -116) can persist even
after the host-side mount looks healthy, requiring a manual remount +
container restart. Adds systemd mount-ready hooks (BindsTo) to restart
immich_server/calibre/ocis when their NFS mount unit restarts, plus a
5-minute health-check timer that does a real nested read and force-remounts
on staleness. Host files backed up under system-config/nfs-self-heal/ so
they can be reinstalled after a host rebuild.
